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Originally Processed With FOIA(s): FOIA Number: S S FOIA MARKER This is not a textual record. This is used as an administrative marker by the George Bush Presidential Library Staff. Record Group/Collection: George H.W. Bush Presidential Records Collection/Office of Origin: Speechwriting, White House Office of Series: Speech File Backup Files Subseries: Chron File, 1989-1993 OA/ID Number: 13706 Folder ID Number: 13706-009 Folder Title: [Release of the Parents' Handbook] "Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's' Guide to Prevention" 2/26/90 Stack: Row: Section: Shelf: Position: G 26 19 6 5 GROWING UP DRUG FREE: A PARENT'S GUIDE TO PREVENTION ROOM 450, OEOB / FEBRUARY 26, 1990 / 3:05 P.M. THANK YOU ALL. AND WELCOME! It's A PLEASURE TO HAVE YOU HERE AT THE WHITE HOUSE. WE'RE HERE TO UNVEIL A LITTLE BOOK THAT I BELIEVE WILL DO A LOT OF GOOD. It's TITLED GROWING UP DRUG FREE: A PARENT'S GUIDE TO PREVENTION. PUBLISHED BY SECRETARY CAVAZOS. - 2 - WRITTEN FOR PARENTS WHO ARE CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR KIDS. AND ILLUSTRATED BY A NUMBER OF PROMISING YOUNG ARTISTS, WHO ARE WITH US TODAY. THIS GUIDEBOOK IS BEING RELEASED BECAUSE WE ALL CARE ABOUT KIDS. ABOUT KEEPING THEIR FUTURES BRIGHT WITH PROMISE -- AND KEEPING THEM FREE OF THE ENSLAVEMENT OF DRUGS. You, LIKE ALL AMERICANS, UNDERSTAND THAT OUR CHILDREN ARE OUR BEST AND BRIGHTEST HOPE. - 3 - BUT YOU DON'T GET A PREP COURSE BEFORE BECOMING A PARENT, AND KIDS DON'T COME WITH OWNER'S MANUALS. THEY HAVE MINDS AND PROBLEMS OF THEIR OWN. So THE BEST THING PARENTS CAN DO IS TALK TO THEM. JUST AS IMPORTANT, LISTEN TO THEM. AND KNOW THE FACTS ABOUT DRUGS -- AND THE WARNING SIGNS THAT A KID'S IN TROUBLE. ABOVE ALL, WE PARENTS CAN MAKE SURE THAT OUR ACTIONS ARE AS GOOD AS OUR WORDS. - 4 - WHERE ILLEGAL DRUGS AND ALCOHOL ABUSE ARE CONCERNED, FOR TOO LONG, WE HAVE CONDONED WHAT WE SHOULD HAVE CONDEMNED. THAT'S WHAT THIS BOOK IS ABOUT. KNOWING WHEN AND HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KIDS -- AND WHEN TO LISTEN. WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE -- AND WHEN TO GET HELP. THIS GUIDEBOOK SETS FORTH SIMPLE STEPS PARENTS CAN TAKE, FOR THEIR KIDS FROM PRE-SCHOOL TO HIGH SCHOOL. IT TALKS ABOUT HOW TO MAKE YOUR VALUES AND YOUR HIGH EXPECTATIONS KNOWN TO YOUR KIDS. - 5 - How TO REMIND CHILDREN THAT DRUGS KILL DREAMS AND DESTROY LIVES. How TO MAKE RULES, AND STICK TO THEM. AND IT EMPHASIZES THE IMPORTANCE OF TELLING YOUR KIDS WHEN THEY'RE DOING RIGHT. BECAUSE EVERY TIME YOU DO, EVERY TIME YOU HELP TO CULTIVATE CHARACTER, YOU'RE PROVIDING ANOTHER REASON NOT TO DO DRUGS. SCHOOLS, CHURCHES AND SYNAGOGUES, COMMUNITY GROUPS, LAW ENFORCEMENT -- ALL CAN HELP US TURN THE TIDE ON DRUG AND ALCOHOL ABUSE. - 6 - BUT NONE CAN TAKE A PARENT'S PLACE. DRUG EDUCATION MUST BEGIN AT HOME AND IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD LONG BEFORE THE CLASSROOM. I WANT TO THANK THE YOUNG PEOPLE HERE TODAY FOR THE WONDERFUL ARTWORK THEY'VE DONE FOR THIS BOOK -- AND FOR THE EXAMPLE THEY'RE SETTING FOR KIDS ACROSS AMERICA. AND I WANT TO URGE PARENTS EVERYWHERE TO READ GROWING UP DRUG FREE. - 7 - WITH OPEN MINDS AND LISTENING HEARTS, PARENTS NEED TO HEAR WHAT THEIR KIDS HAVE TO SAY. SHOW YOUR KIDS HOW READY YOU ARE -- JUST TO LISTEN -- AND IT'S OFTEN SURPRISING HOW MUCH THEY WANT TO DO THE RIGHT THING. Now, I'D LIKE TO PRESENT ONE OF THE FIRST COPIES OF THIS TERRIFIC PARENT'S HANDBOOK TO ANN LYNCH -- THE PRESIDENT OF THE NATIONAL P.T.A. # # # THE WHITE HOUSE WASHINGTON Date: 2-14-90 TO: Kristin Gear FROM: JUSTINE D'ANDREA Associate Director you Office of Cabinet Affairs Attached are draft remarks that the Department of Education has drafted for the President when he addresses the Ceremony to release "Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention". At the end of the President's remarks, we would like to have him present Ann Lynch, President of the PTA, with a copy of the publication. The contact over at Education is Lon Anderson. He can be reached at 732-3026. If you have any questions, please give me a call. The event is it scheduled for February 26th, at 3:05 pm., in Room 450 CUU (Lange/Cawley) February 20, 1989 5:45 P.M. [PARENTS.DOC] PRESIDENTIAL REMARKS: FOR GROWING UP DRUG FREE: A PARENT'S GUIDE TO PREVENTION ROOM 450, OEOB MONDAY, FEBRUARY 26, 1990 3:05 P.M. Thank you all. And welcome! It's a pleasure to have you here at the White House. We're here to unveil a little book that I believe will do a lot of good. It's titled Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention. Published by Secretary Cavazos. Written for parents who are concerned about their kids. And illustrated by a number of promising young artists, who are with us today. This guidebook is being released because we all care about kids. About keeping their futures bright with promise -- and keeping them free of the enslavement of drugs. You, like all Americans, understand that our children are our best and brightest hope. But you don't get a prep course before becoming a parent, and kids don't come with owner's manuals. They have minds and problems of their own. So the best thing parents can do is talk to them. Just as important, listen to them. And know the facts about drugs -- and the warning signs that a kid's in trouble. Above all, we parents can make sure that our actions are as good as our words. Where illegal drugs and alcohol abuse are concerned, for too long, we have condoned what we should have condemned. 2 That's what this book is about. Knowing when and how to talk to your kids -- and when to listen. Where to draw the line -- and when to get help. This guidebook sets forth simple steps parents can take, for their kids from pre-school to high school. It talks about how to make your values and your high expectations known to your kids. How to remind children that drugs kill dreams and destroy lives. How to make rules, and stick to them. And it emphasizes the importance of telling your kids when they're doing right. Because every time you do, you're providing another reason not to do drugs. Schools, churches and synagogues, community groups, law enforcement -- all can help us turn the tide on drug and alcohol abuse. But none, can take a parent's place. Long before drug education happens in the classroom, it begins at home and in the neighborhood. I want to thank the young people here today for the wonderful artwork they've done for this book -- and for the example they're setting for kids across America. And I want to urge parents everywhere to read Growing Up Drug Free. With open minds and listening hearts, parents need to hear what their kids have to say. Show your kids how ready you are -- just to listen -- and it's often surprising how much they want to do the right thing. 3 Now, I'd like to present one of the first copies of this terrific parent's handbook to Ann Lynch -- the President of the National P.T.A. ### CALIFORNIA CHAMBER MARCH 1, 1990 Business Activities for Causes: Pacific Gas & Electric Mr. Neal Pickus (415) 973-4382 **Californians view transportation/traffic congestion as their #1 problem. The quality of life is going down because of it, especially in Los Angeles and the Bay Area. PG & E is working with other companies and government agencies to address this issue. They are concerned that the Clean Air Act which mandate measures to reduce emissions could result in actions which inhibit growth -- like: no new housing because that would bring more cars; restrictions on which days you can drive etc. They are meeting to come up with market solutions to reduce congestion such as: letting the market decide by implementing a user fee that is high enough to discourage frequent usage and then using these fees to fund mass transit systems as an alternative. **Energy Conservation: PG & E is working with utility companies and environmental groups in energy conservation and Consumer Energy Efficiency Programs. Recently a consortium of CA utility companies and the enviros issued a joint proposal to the CA Public Utility Commission for Energy Efficiency Programs which will give incentives to utility companies to carry out programs. (Up to now, there was no incentive for these companies because successes in energy efficiency ultimately means less business for them. Programs thus went nowhere.) The current proposition suggests a rate structure for utility companies to get where they will get a percentage of the savings. For example, for each $1 saved, the utilities would get five cents. All the utilities are preparing to implement this (Lange/Cawley) February 20, 1989 12:00 P.M. [PARENTS.DOC] PRESIDENTIAL REMARKS: FOR GROWING UP DRUG FREE: A PARENT'S GUIDE TO PREVENTION ROOM 450, OEOB MONDAY, FEBRUARY 26, 1990 3:05 P.M. Thank you all. And welcome! It's a pleasure to have you here at the White House. We're here to unveil a little book that I believe will do a lot of good. 1 X X x X X It's titled Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to X Prevention. Published by Secretary Cavazos. Written for parents who are concerned about their kids. And illustrated by a number of promising young artists, who are with us today. This guidebook is being released because we all care about kids. About keeping their futures bright with promise -- and keeping them free from? of the enslavement of drugs. You, like all Americans, understand that our children are our best and brightest hope. But you don't get a prep course before becoming a parent, and kids don't come with owner's manuals. They have minds and problems of their own. So the best thing parents can do is know them well. Talk to them. Know the facts about drugs -- and the warning signs that a kid's in trouble. Above all, we parents can make sure that our actions are as good as our words. Prevention is the greatest kindness we can show our kids. Where illegal drugs and alcohol abuse are concerned, for too long, we have condoned what we should have condemned. That's what this book is about. Knowing when and how to talk to your kids -- and when to listen. Where to draw the line -- and when to get help. This guidebook sets forth simple steps for parents to take, for kids from pre-school to high school. It talks about making your values and your high expectations known to your kids. Reminding children how drugs kill dreams and destroy lives. Making rules, and sticking to them. And emphasizing the things that your kid is doing right. Because every time you do, you're providing another reason not to do drugs. Schools, churches and synagogues, community groups, law enforcement -- all can help us turn the tide on drug and alcohol abuse. But none can take a parent's place. Long before drug education happens in the classroom, it begins at home and in the neighborhood. I want to thank the young people here today for the wonderful artwork they've done for this book -- and for the example they're setting for kids across America. And I want to urge parents everywhere to read Growing Up Drug Free. With open minds and listening hearts, parents need to hear what their kids have to say. Show your kids how ready you are -- just to listen -- and it's often surprising how much they want to do the right thing. Now, I'd like to present one of the first copies of this X X X X X terrific parent's handbook to Ann Lynch -- the President of the X X National P.T.A. ### 01.12.90 06:40 PM *SECRETARY/DEPT EDUC. PO2 Remarks of President Bush White House Ceremony for Release of Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention As you know, we are fighting a war. A war against drugs. This is a war we must win. Too often our youth are the first casualties. Schools, church, community, help. But Parents are our nation's first line of defense against drug and none recan can alcohol abuse. Drug education does not begin in the take aparent's take aparent's place. classroom. It must begin at home and in the neighborhood. Parents and families must set the first example of a drug-free life. That is why Secretary Cavazos produced this handbook -- to help parents keep their children drug free. Prevention is the key to stopping the spread of drug use in this country. Helping a youngster say no to that first drink (if he is underage) or that first use of an illicit drug is a far better strategy than trying to control the effects of drug use or mend the damage that it causes. 01.12.90 06:40 PM *SECRETARY/DEPT EDUC. P03 - 2 - Remember, it is never too early for parents to start talking to their children about drugs. Parents who wait until their children are teenagers run a powerful risk that the message will come too late. Barbara and I know from experience how wonderful -- and how difficult -- being a parent can be. (Larry, here, and his wife, Peggy Cavazos, have raised 10 children. I'd say they're pretty knowledgeable about this too!) Of course, there is no book or list of rules that can answer every question or tell us how to handle every situation the right way. But this book for kids from pre-school to sets forth steps for parents to take -- simple steps that can ultimately make the difference in a child's attitude toward drugs and alcohol. Let me share some of them with you: O Make your values and expectations well known to your children by talking about what you believe is Fortoo long important, what you believe is right, what you believe is wrong, and how you and they can make the fature we have should have right decisions. Set a good example by not abusing drugs or alcohol. Remind them time and time again that illegal drug use is wrong and that drugs kill dreams, destroy lives. Emphasize things your Rid is doing right & giving fine you do, you're 01..12.90 06:40 PM *SECRETARY/DEPT EDUC. P04 - 3 - O Set and enforce rules against using alcohol and other drugs. Don't allow drinking and drug use at your children's parties at your house. Don't condone drinking and drug use by your child at any place, at any time. Establish a zero tolerance rule in your home. Never allow your child to drive if you suspect he or she has been drinking or taking drugs. Before parents can be effective advocates for their children growing up drug free they must have the facts about drugs and their effects. This booklet describes the different drugs that are available to young people today, and explains how parents can recognize physical and emotional signs of drug use. through your your example- Apetation I urge parents everywhere to read this handbook. Perhaps the most important point for parents to remember is this: You know your children better than anyone else. You have invested years of love and attention in them. You are the best one to talk honestly and calmly with your children about the importance of keeping drugs out of their lives. What you say and do with your children will make a difference to them, to you, and to the future of America. All our efforts 01..12.90 06:40 PM *SECRETARY/DEPT EDUC. P05 - 4 - to stop the flood of illicit drugs into this country will be to no avail if we cannot educate our own youth about the dangers of drug use and help them to reject drugs. I want to thank the young people here today for their imaginative and colorful artwork, which was used to illustrate the handbook. I hope each of you will make a commitment to remain drug free and carry that commitment back to your schools and your communities. At this time, I am pleased to present one of the first copies of the parent's handbook to Ms. Ann Lynch, president of the National PTA. The PTA is the largest parent organization in the country. I wanted to give Ms. Lynch this copy to underscore the critical role parent's play in keeping kids off drugs and to reaffirm our commitment to helping parents in this war on drugs. Thank you and God bless you. 0325N 01.12. 90 06:40 PM *SECRETARY/DEPT EDUC. PO6 SCENARIO FOR WHITE HOUSE PHOTO OPPORTUNITY FOR THE RELEASE OF THE PARENT'S HANDBOOK, GROWING UP DRUG-FREE: A PARENT'S GUIDE TO PREVENTION Time: 2:30 pm Location: Roosevelt Room, White House Participants: - The President - Secretary Lauro Cavazos - 10 children who's art work appears in the publication - Ms. Ann Lynch, President of the national PTA Materials: - Copies of the parent's guide for distribution (We will need a table, or place, to store copies (100) of the publication to give those attending the ceremony.) - A poster-size picture of the cover of the handbook, to be placed on an easel Attendees Sitting in Audience: 10 1 parent for each of the children 3 principals from the children's schools 19 drug education and family experts who reviewed the publication 16 Department officers and staff who participated in developing the publication 1 Mrs. Cavazos 1 Ms. Ann Lynch, President of the national PTA 50 0.1.1.212. 90 06:40 PM *SECRETARY/DEPT EDUC. P07 SCHEDULE OF EVENTS TIME ACTIVITY 2:25 pm - Children are gathered in the front of the room (left of center). The cover poster is behind the children, close to the center of the room. 2:30 pm - The Secretary enters first, followed by the President. They stand next to children, greet them, ask them their names and make them feel at ease. One child, Alison Babusci, is attending American University as a freshman now. (left to right: children, the Secretary, the President). 2:32 pm - The Secretary gives his remarks, describing the publication, its importance and its intended distribution. - The Secretary recognizes the children for their art work which is included in the publication. - The Secretary asks the children to gather close around him and the President as he gives the President the first symbolic copies (2) of the publication. (Photo opportunity #1). 2:36 pm - The President gives his remarks, appealing to all parents to get involved in the war against drugs. - The President then asks Ann Lynch, President of the national PTA to join them on the stage. (She is sitting in the front row.) - Ms. Lynch stands between the Secretary and the President. - The President notes he is giving Ms. Lynch, as a representative of largest parent group in the country, a copy of the publication to emphasize the crucial role parent's play in keeping kids away from drugs. (photo opportunity #2) 2:45 pm - End of ceremony. G. OWING U P.UG FPEE A Parent's Guide To Prevention GROWING UP DRUG FREE: A Parent's Guide to Prevention OF EDICATION * * UNITED STATES OF AMERICA U.S. DEPARTMENT OF EDUCATION WASHINGTON, DC Original artwork in this booklet was created by the following students at Oakview Elementary School, Fairfax County, Virginia: Katie Bell Michael Parker cover page 25 Carrie Venable Uma Rao page 1 page 27 Lindsay Simpson Sarah Heggestad page 9 page 41 Lauren DeAngelis Allen Madison page 14 page 49 Artwork on page 16 by Gretchen Fair Tilden Elementary School Rockville, Maryland Artwork on page 21 by Alison K. Babusci Schenley High School Tech Center Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Photos on pages 22 and 23 courtesy of the Office of the Attorney General, State of California and the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration Photo on page 12 by Paul Robert Perry/Uniphoto Photo on page 26 by Frank Siteman/Uniphoto Secretary's Introduction All Americans know that there is a serious alcohol and drug problem in our country today, and many of us are concerned about how it may affect our own families. As parents, we want the best for our children. We want them to grow up healthy, edu- cated to their fullest potential, and ready to meet the challenges of the future. But we may feel power- less before the threat that drugs pose for our chil- dren and for our communities. Fortunately, there is a lot we can do to protect our children from drugs. Family values and standards opposed to drug use, strong bonds be- tween parents and children, and open communi- cation all promote healthy development and lessen the chances that young people will use drugs. Remarking on the importance of the fam- ily role in preventing drug use, President Bush Lauro F. Cavazos, Secretary of Education has said: Drug education doesn't begin in class It must begin at home and in the neighborhood. Parents and families must set the first example of a drug-free life. And when families are broken, caring friends and neighbors must step in. (televised address to the Nation, 9/5/89) In addition, we can give our children the straight facts about alcohol and other drugs and the harm they can cause. Two of the most effective preven- tion tools are awareness of the problem and knowledge of ways to help motivate our children to resist the pressure to use alcohol and other drugs. Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention The purpose of this handbook is to help families be doing these or other things. If so, I urge you to take an active role in drug prevention before they continue your efforts and to look for new ways have a problem. Drawing on the advice of ex- to share the message that drug use is wrong and perts in drug prevention and in child develop- harmful. If you have not yet had family discus- ment, the handbook outlines what children at sions about alcohol and other drugs, I hope this four key stages of development should know handbook will encourage you to begin. about drugs and suggests family activities to rein- As an educator, I know the value of helping peo- force children's motivation to avoid alcohol and other drugs. ple to bring about change through knowledge and information. As a parent, I know that we can Much of what we talk about here is rooted in make a difference in our children's lives. common sense, and many parents may already What Parents Can Do Introduction Child rearing is one of the most important tasks anyone ever performs, and the one for which there is the least preparation. Most of us learn how to be parents through on-the-job training and by following the example that our parents set. Today the widespread use of alcohol and other drugs subjects our children, families, and com- munities to pressures unheard of 30 or 40 years ago. Frankly, many of us need help to deal with this frightening threat to our children's health and well-being. Recent surveys show that we are making prog- ress in our national battle against some drugs. Casual use is declining, attitudes are changing, and we know more about what works to prevent drug use by our young people. As parents, we can build on that progress in our own families by having strong, loving relation- ships with our children, by teaching standards of right and wrong, by setting and enforcing rules WHAT PARENTS CAN DO for behavior, by knowing the facts about alcohol and other drugs, and by really listening to our children. Teaching Values Every family has expectations of behavior that are determined by principles and standards. 1 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention These add up to "values." Children who decide ences between what adults may do legally and not to use alcohol or other drugs often make this what is appropriate and legal for children. Keep decision because they have strong convictions that distinction sharp, however. Do not let your against the use of these substances-convictions children be involved in your drinking by mixing that are based in a value system. Social, family, a cocktail for you or bringing you a beer, and do and religious values give young people reasons not allow your child to have sips of your drink. to say no and help them stick to their decisions. Look for conflicts between your words and your ac- Here are some ways to help make your family's tions. Remember that children are quick to sense values clear: when parents send signals by their actions that it's all right to duck unpleasant duties or to be Communicate values openly. Talk about why val- dishonest. Telling your child to say that you are ues such as honesty, self-reliance, and responsi- not at home because a phone call comes at an in- bility are important, and how values help convenient time is, in effect, teaching your child children make good decisions. Teach your child that it is all right to be dishonest. how each decision builds on previous decisions as one's character is formed, and how a good Make sure that your child understands your fam- decision makes the next decision easier. ily values. Parents assume, sometimes mistak- enly, that children have "absorbed" values Recognize how your actions affect the develop- even though they may be rarely or never dis- ment of your child's values. Simply stated, chil- cussed. You can test your child's understand- dren copy their parents' behavior. Children ing by discussing some common situations at whose parents smoke, for example, are more the dinner table; for example, "What would likely to become smokers. Evaluate your own you do if the person ahead of you in line at use of tobacco, alcohol, prescription medi- the theater dropped a dollar bill?" cines, and even over-the-counter drugs. Con- sider how your attitudes and actions may be shaping your child's choice about whether or Setting and Enforcing Rules Against not to use alcohol or other drugs. the Use of Alcohol and Other Drugs As parents, we are responsible for setting rules This does not mean, however, that if you are in for our children to follow. When it comes to alco- the habit of having wine with dinner or an occa- hol and other drug use, strong rules need to be sional beer or cocktail you must stop. Children established to protect the well-being of a child. can understand and accept that there are differ- 2 What Parents Can Do Setting rules is only half the job, however; we Children and Alcohol must be prepared to enforce the penalties when the rules are broken. Parents who are clear about not wanting their children to use illicit drugs may find it harder to be tough about alco- Be specific. Explain the reasons for the rules. hol. After all, alcohol is legal for adults, many parents Tell your child what the rules are and what drink, and alcohol is a part of some religious obser- behavior is expected. Discuss the conse- vances. As a result, we may view alcohol as a less danger- quences of breaking the rules: what the pun- ous substance than other drugs. The facts say otherwise: ishment will be, how it will be carried out, 4.6 million teenagers have a drinking problem. how much time will be involved, and what 4 percent of high school seniors drink alcohol every the punishment is supposed to achieve. day. Be consistent. Make it clear to your child that a Alcohol-related accidents are the leading cause of no-alcohol/no-drug-use rule remains the death among young people 15 to 24 years of age. same at all times-in your home, in a friend's About half of all youthful deaths in drowning, fires, home, anywhere the child is. suicide, and homicide are alcohol-related. Young people who use alcohol at an early age are Be reasonable. Don't add new consequences more likely to use alcohol heavily and to have that have not been discussed before the rule alcohol-related problems; they are also more likely to was broken. Avoid unrealistic threats such as, abuse other drugs and to get into trouble with the "Your father will kill you when he gets law. home." Instead, react calmly and carry out Young people whose body weight is lower than the punishment that the child expects to re- adults reach a higher blood alcohol concentration ceive for breaking the rule. level than adults and show greater effects for longer periods of time. Getting the Facts As parents, we need to know about alcohol and other drugs SO that we can provide our children with current and correct information. If we have a working knowledge of common drugs-know their effects on the mind and body, and the symp- toms of their use-we can discuss these subjects 3 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Facts on Tobacco intelligently with our children. In addition, well- informed parents are better able to recognize if a We know that smokers are 10 times as likely as nonsmok- child has symptoms of alcohol or drug-related ers to develop lung cancer and 3 times as likely to die at problems: early ages from heart attack. In fact, in 1985, smoking was the leading cause of early death among adults. Nicotine, At a minimum, you should: the active ingredient in tobacco, is as addictive as heroin, and fewer than 20 percent of smokers are able to quit the - know the different types of drugs and al- first time they try. Despite these facts, many children use these products. cohol most commonly used and the dan- gers associated with each; 18 percent of high school seniors are daily smokers; 11 percent smoke 10 or more cigarettes per day. - be able to identify paraphernalia associ- Young people who use cigarettes are also at great risk ated with each drug; for all other drug use. 70 percent of all children try cigarettes, 40 percent of - be familiar with the street names of drugs; them before they have reached high school. - know what drugs look like; Cigarettes contain more than 4,000 harmful sub- stances, several of which cause cancer. - know the signs of alcohol and other drug 12 percent of boys and 1 percent of girls have chewed use and be alert for changes in your tobacco or used snuff. Smokeless tobacco is just as ad- child's behavior or appearance; dictive and harmful as tobacco that is smoked. - know how to get help promptly if you sus- pect your child may be using alcohol and other drugs. For current information on alcohol and other drug use, the resource section in this guide can help direct parents to clearinghouses, drug and alcohol prevention organizations, and parent groups-to name a few. 4 What Parents Can Do A Quiz for Parents 7. People who have not used alcohol and 1. What is the most commonly used drug in other drugs before their 20th birthday: the United States? (a) have no risk of becoming chemically (a) heroin (b) cocaine (c) alcohol dependent (b) are less likely to develop a (d) marijuana drinking problem or use illicit drugs (c) have an increased risk of becoming 2. Name the three drugs most commonly chemically dependent. used by children. 8. A speedball is a combination of which 3. Which drug is associated with the most two drugs? teenage deaths? (a) cocaine and heroin (b) PCP and LSD 4. Which of the following contains the (c) valium and alcohol (d) amphetamines most alcohol? and barbiturates (a) a 12-ounce can of beer (b) a cocktail (c) a 12-ounce wine cooler (d) a 5-ounce 9. Anabolic steroids are dangerous because glass of wine (e) all contain equal they may result in: amounts of alcohol. (a) development of female characteristics in males (b) development of male charac- 5. Crack is a particularly dangerous drug teristics in females (c) stunted growth because it is: (d) damage to the liver and cardiovascular (a) cheap (b) readily available (c) highly system (e) overaggressive behavior addictive (d) all of the above (f) all of the above 6. Fumes from which of the following can 10. How much alcohol can a pregnant be inhaled to produce a high: woman safely consume? (a) spray paint (b) model glue (c) nail pol- (a) a 6-ounce glass of wine with dinner ish remover (d) whipped cream canisters (b) two 12-ounce beers each day (e) all of the above (c) five 4-ounce shots of whiskey a month (d) none (answers on page 6) 5 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Answers 6. (e) Virtually anything that emits fumes or comes in aerosol form can be inhaled to 1. (c) Because it is legal for adults and obtain a high. widely accepted in our culture, alcohol is the drug most often used in the United 7. (b) Early use of alcohol and other drugs- States. often by age 15 or less-is strongly associ- ated with drug-related problems such as 2. Alcohol, tobacco, and marijuana. These addiction. are the "gateway" drugs, drugs that chil- dren are first exposed to and whose use 8. (a) Combining cocaine and heroin is in- often precedes use of other drugs. creasingly popular as a way of trying to lessen or control bad side effects. 3. Alcohol. More than 10,000 teenagers died in alcohol-related traffic accidents in 1986; 9. (f) Steroid users subject themselves to 40,000 more were injured. more than 70 side effects. The liver and cardiovascular and reproductive systems 4. (e) All four contain approximately 1.5 are most seriously affected by steroid use. ounces of alcohol. In females, irreversible masculine traits can develop. Psychological effects in both 5. (d) Small quantities of crack can be sexes can cause very aggressive behavior bought for as little as $5.00. The low price and depression. makes it easily affordable to young peo- ple. In addition, crack is thought to be 10. (d) Medical researchers have not estab- one of the most addictive drugs. lished any safe limits for alcohol intake during pregnancy. 6 What Parents Can Do Talking with and Listening to Your about problems, take the initiative and ask Child questions about what is going on at school or in other activities. Many parents hesitate to discuss alcohol and other drug use with their child. Some of us believe that Be available to discuss even sensitive subjects. our children couldn't become involved with illegal Young people need to know that they can substances. Others delay because we don't know rely on their parents for accurate information what to say or how to say it, or we are afraid of put- about subjects that are important to them. If ting ideas into our children's heads. your child wants to discuss something at a time when you can't give it full attention, ex- Don't wait until you think your child has a prob- plain why you can't talk, set a time to talk lem. Many young people in treatment programs later, and then carry through on it! say that they had used alcohol and other drugs for at least two years before their parents knew about Give lots of praise. Emphasize the things your it. Begin early to talk about alcohol and other youngster is doing right instead of always focus- drugs, and keep the lines of communication open. ing on things that are wrong. When parents are quicker to praise than to criticize, children learn Don't be afraid to admit that you don't have all the to feel good about themselves, and they de- answers. Let your child know that you are con- velop the self-confidence to trust their own cerned, and that you can work together to find an- judgment. swers. Some references that may help are listed on pages 41-48 of this guide. Give clear messages. When talking about the use of alcohol and other drugs, be sure you give Here are some basic hints for improving your ability your child a clear no-use message, so that the to talk with your child about alcohol and other drugs: child will know exactly what is expected. For ex- Be a good listener. Make sure your child feels ample, "In our family we don't allow the use of comfortable bringing problems or questions illegal drugs, and children are not allowed to to you. Listen closely to what your child drink." says. Don't allow anger at what you hear to Model good behavior. Children learn by exam- end the discussion. If necessary, take a 5- ple as well as teaching. Make sure that your minute break to calm down before continu- own actions reflect the standards of honesty, ing. Take note of what your child is not integrity, and fair play that you expect of saying, too. If the child does not tell you your child. 7 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Communication Tips Effective communication between parents and children is During the conversation, acknowledge what your not always easy to achieve. Children and adults have dif- child is saying-move your body forward if you are ferent communication styles and different ways of re- sitting, touch a shoulder if you are walking, or nod sponding in a conversation. In addition, timing and your head and make eye contact. atmosphere may determine how successful communica- tion will be. Parents should make time to talk with their Responding children in a quiet, unhurried manner. The following tips "I am very concerned about. or "I understand are designed to make communication more successful. that it is sometimes difficult are better ways to Listening respond to your child than beginning sentences with "You should," or "If I were you," or "When I was Pay attention. your age we didn't. Speaking for oneself sounds thoughtful and is less likely to be considered a lecture Don't interrupt. or an automatic response. Don't prepare what you will say while your child is If your child tells you something you don't want to speaking. hear, don't ignore the statement. Reserve judgment until your child has finished and Don't offer advice in response to every statement has asked you for a response. your child makes. It is better to listen carefully to Looking what is being said and try to understand the real feel- ings behind the words. Be aware of your child's facial expression and body language. Is your child nervous or uncomfortable- Make sure you understand what your child means. frowning, drumming fingers, tapping a foot, looking Repeat things to your child for confirmation. at the clock? Or does your child seem relaxed-smil- ing, looking you in the eyes? Reading these signs will help parents know how the child is feeling. 8 Applying the Principles The preceding sections have outlined some gen- eral guidelines for talking with children about al- cohol and other drugs. We can make these messages more effective by taking into account the knowledge youngsters already have and their readiness to learn new information at differ- ent ages. Preschoolers Drug education may seem unnecessary for pre- schoolers, but the attitudes and habits learned early can have an important bearing on the deci- sions children make later. Three- and four-year-olds are not yet ready to learn complex facts about alcohol and other drugs, but they can learn the decision-making and problem-solving skills that they will need to refuse alcohol and other drugs later. Remember that children in this age group are not able to lis- ten quietly for very long; they are more inter- ested in doing things for themselves. LYING THE :INCIPLES It's tempting for busy parents to do things for young children because it's quicker and easier. With a little planning, however, you can use the learn-by-doing approach to teach your pre- schooler how to make decisions. Let your child pick from a range of options that are acceptable to you. When the choice is made, make sure your child sticks with it. 9 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Suggested Activities children: Play fair. Share toys. Tell the truth. Set aside regular times when you can give Treat others the way you want them to treat your child your full attention. Playing to- you. gether, reading a book, and taking a walk are Encourage your child to follow instructions. special times that help to build strong bonds For example, invite your child to help you of trust and affection between you and your child. cook; following a recipe-measuring ingredi- ents, cracking eggs; kneading dough-can Point out to your child poisonous and harm- help children have fun while learning about ful substances that can be found in your step-by-step procedures. Playing simple home. Household products such as bleach, board games with your child can give prac- lye, and furniture polish all have warning la- tice in following instructions and rules. bels that you can read to your child. Keep all Take advantage of opportunities to use play household products that could harm a small as a way to help your child handle frustrating child away from the place you store foods situations and solve simple problems. A and out of your child's reach. tower of blocks that continuously collapses Explain how medicine can be harmful if used can drive a child to tears. You can offer a few incorrectly. Teach your child not to take any- suggestions to keep the tower up, but at the thing from a medicine bottle unless you give same time you should ask your child what he it to the child yourself or specify someone or she thinks is the best way to do it. Turning else who can give it, such as a babysitter or a bad situation into a success reinforces a grandparent. child's self-confidence. Explain why children need good food and To help your child learn decision making in a should put only good things into their bodies. practical way, lay out some clothing from Have your child name several good foods which the child can select what he or she that he or she eats regularly, and explain how wishes to wear. Don't worry if the choices those foods will make your child strong and don't quite match. Let your child know that healthy. you think he or she is able to make good decisions. Provide guidelines that teach your child what kind of behavior you expect. Teach your child the basic rules of how to get along with other 10 Applying the Principles Kindergarten-Grade 3 By the end of the third grade, your child should understand: Five- to nine-year-olds usually feel good about themselves. They like growing up, and they gen- - what an illicit drug is, why it is illegal, erally like school and all the new opportunities it what it looks like, and what harm it can provides. They still think and learn primarily by do; experience, and they don't have a good under- standing of things that will happen in the future. how foods, poisons, medicines, and illicit Fact and fantasy mingle easily; the world is seen drugs differ; as the child wishes it to be, and not as it actually is. Children of this age need rules to guide their how medicines may help during illness, behavior and information to make good choices when prescribed by a doctor and adminis- and decisions. tered by a responsible adult, but also how medicines are drugs that can be harmful if Discussions about alcohol and other drugs must misused; be in the here and now, and related to people and events the child knows about. Most children why it is important to avoid unknown are very interested in how their bodies work, so and possibly dangerous objects, contain- discussions should focus on maintaining good ers, and substances; health and avoiding things that might harm the body. which adults, both at school and out- Adults are very important both as teachers and side, you want your child to rely on for as role models. Children are generally trusting, answers to questions or help in an and they believe that the decisions adults make emergency; for them are right. Helping your child know which foods are nutritious and why exer- whom to trust is important. They need to under- cise is important; stand that just because someone tells them to do something, it is not always right to do it. what the school and home rules are about alcohol and other drug use; and how using alcohol and other drugs is ille- gal for all children. 11 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Suggested Activities bike where you do not allow your child to go, Children in this age group need to under- for example, or being offered medicine or stand the family's rules. You can explain the other unfamiliar substances. Give your child need for rules by talking about traffic safety some responses to use in these situations. (See rules and school rules with which your child page 13.) is already familiar. Develop a "helpers" file of people your child Emphasize the importance of good health by can rely on. Put together a phone list of rela- talking about things people do to stay tives, family friends, neighbors, teachers, reli- healthy, such as brushing teeth after each gious leaders, and the police and fire meal, washing hands, eating good foods, get- departments. Illustrate the list with photos. ting plenty of rest and sleep. You can use this Talk with your child about the kind of help discussion to contrast the harmful things that each person on the list could provide in case people do, such as taking drugs, smoking, or of various unexpected situations, such as drinking to excess. being approached by strangers or losing a house key. Discuss how TV advertisers try to persuade children to buy their products, including high-sugar/additives-loaded cereals, candy bars, and toys named after characters in car- toon shows that children find appealing. Discuss illnesses with which your child is fa- miliar and for which prescription drugs are often necessary. Many children have had strep throat, ear infections, flu, and colds. Dis- cussing such illnesses can help your child un- derstand the difference between medicine and illicit drugs. Practice ways to say no with your child. De- scribe situations that may make your child feel uncomfortable: being invited to ride a 12 Applying the Principles Grades 4-6 Teaching Your Child to Say No This is a period of slowed physical growth when Here are some steps that you can practice with your typically a lot of energy goes into learning. Chil- child to make it easier for the child to refuse an offer of dren 10 to 12 years old love to learn facts, espe- alcohol and other drugs. Tell your child to: cially strange ones, and they want to know how Ask questions. If unknown substances are offered, things work and what sources of information are ask, "What is it?" and "Where did you get it?" If a available to them. party or other gathering is proposed, ask, "Who else is coming?" "Where will it be?" "Will parents be Friends-a single best friend or a group of there?" friends-become very important. What children this age are interested in or will be committed to Say no. Don't argue, don't discuss. Say no and show that you mean it. often is determined by what the group thinks. Children's self-image is determined in part by Give reasons. "I'm doing something else that night" or "The coach says drugs will hurt my game" are ex- the extent to which they are accepted by peers, amples of some reasons that youngsters can use. especially popular peers. As a result, a lot of "fol- Also, don't forget the oldest reason: "My parents lowers" are unable to make independent deci- will kill me." sions and choices. Suggest other things to do. If a friend is offering alco- This age is perhaps the most important time for hol or other drugs, saying no is tougher. Suggesting something else to do-going to a movie, playing a parents to focus on increased efforts at drug pre- game, or working together on a project-shows that vention. These late elementary school years are drugs are being rejected, not the friend. crucial to decisions about the use of alcohol and Leave. When all these steps have been tried, get out other drugs. The greatest risk for starting to of the situation immediately. Go home, go to class, smoke comes in the sixth and seventh grades. Re- join a group of friends, or talk to someone else. search shows that the earlier youngsters begin to use alcohol and other drugs, the more likely they are to have real trouble. 13 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Your child will need a clear no-use message, fac- tual information, and strong motivation to resist pressures to try alcohol and other drugs and to reinforce the determination to remain drug free. Appropriate new information could include: - ways to identify specific drugs, including alcohol, tobacco, marijuana, inhalants, and cocaine in their various forms; - the long- and short-term effects and conse- quences of use; - the effects of drugs on different parts of the body, and the reasons why drugs are especially dangerous for growing bodies; and — the consequences of alcohol and other ille- gal drug use to the family, society, and the user. 14 Applying the Principles Suggested Activities Encourage your child to join a local antidrug Create special times when you are available club or peer assistance group that encourages to talk to your child. Try to give your child drug-free activities. undivided attention. A walk together, dinner in a quiet place, or a visit to the ice cream par- Ask your child to scan the morning newspa- lor after a movie are some ways to make talk- per and to circle any article that has to do ing together a little easier. with alcohol and other drug use. No doubt there will be articles about drug-related mur- Encourage your child to participate in whole- ders, strife in other countries due to drug traf- some activities that will allow the child to ficking, and alcohol-related auto accidents. form new friendships and have fun. Sports, Talk with your child about the tremendous Scouts, religious-sponsored youth programs, loss of lives and resources because of the use and community-sponsored youth organiza- of alcohol and other drugs. tions are excellent ways for children to meet others of their own age. Make friends with the parents of your child's friends so that you can reinforce one Teach your child to be aware of how drugs another's efforts in teaching good personal and alcohol are promoted. Discuss how chil- and social habits. A neighborhood social gath- dren are bombarded with messages-from ering, sporting event, or school assembly are TV, song lyrics, billboards, and advertise- good places to meet. ments-that using alcohol and other drugs is very glamorous. Clearly separate the myths Join with other parents in providing super- from the realities of alcohol and other drug vised activities for young people to limit "free use. time," which often leads to experimentation with alcohol and other drugs. Continue to practice ways to say no with your child, emphasizing ways to refuse alco- hol and other drugs. It is not uncommon for sixth graders to be offered beer and cigarettes and to know other children who smoke and drink alcohol. 15 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Grades 7-9 During the early teens "fitting in" with friends is a controlling influence. In some ways, the onset of puberty is like a "rebirth." Children want and need to let go of the past and to find their own unique identity. This often means letting go of old friendships and ties with teachers and other adults, as well as old ways of doing things. The decision-making and problem-solving methods that they learned as young children are still help- ful, but young teens will be making new deci- sions based on new information and new goals. Young people this age can begin to deal with abstractions and the future. They understand that their actions have consequences, and they know how their behavior affects others. They sometimes have a shaky self-image: they are not sure whether they are growing and chang- ing adequately, they are often in conflict with adults, they are not sure where they are headed, and they tend to see themselves as not "okay." Strong emotional support and a good model of adult behavior are particularly impor- tant now. Young people who use alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs typically begin before leaving the ninth grade. Be sure that family discussions about drugs emphasize the immediate, unpleas- ant effects of alcohol and other drug use. Telling junior high school students who are smoking 16 Applying the Principles that they will get lung cancer or heart disease in curfews, unchaperoned parties, and other social several decades is less likely to make an impres- activities. sion than talking about bad breath, stained teeth and fingers, and burned clothing. Monitor your child's whereabouts. If your child is at "a friend's house," be sure that you Many young people use drugs because their know the friend and the parents. If your child friends use drugs. A large portion of your pre- is at the movies, be sure you know what film vention efforts during these years should be is playing and at which theater. Last-minute spent reinforcing your child's motivation to changes in plans, such as visiting a different avoid alcohol and other drugs. Here are some friend or going to a different movie, should important steps: not be permitted unless the child checks with Mom, Dad, or another designated adult. Counteract peer influence with parent influence. Reinforce your no-alcohol/no-drug-use rules By the end of ninth grade your child should and expectations so that your child clearly un- know: derstands that drinking and using drugs are unacceptable and illegal. Children may argue the characteristics and chemical nature of that "everyone is doing it" and not experienc- specific drugs and drug interactions; ing any harmful effects. Inform your child that alcohol and other drug use is illegal for the physiology of drug effects on the circu- children and that "everyone is not doing it." latory, respiratory, nervous, and reproduc- Emphasize how unpredictable the effects of tive systems; alcohol and other drugs can be, so that al- though many drug users may appear to func- the stages of chemical dependency and tion properly, drug use is extremely risky, their unpredictability from person to and all it takes is one bad experience to person; change a life. the ways that drug use affects activities re- Get to know your child's friends and their par- quiring motor coordination, such as driv- ents. Meet your child's friends. Invite them ing a car or participating in sports; and to your home frequently. Share your expecta- tions about behavior with other parents. family history, particularly if alcoholism Work together to develop a set of rules about or other drug addiction has been a problem. 17 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Suggested Activities Periodically review and update, with your Continue to practice ways to say no with child's participation, your house rules and your child. Teach your child to recognize your child's responsibilities regarding chores, problem situations, such as being at a house homework, time limit on TV watching, and where no adults are present and young peo- the curfew on school and weekend nights. ple are smoking or drinking beer. Make up Discuss these questions with your child: Are situations in which your child may be asked the rules fair and the consequences appropri- to try alcohol and other drugs and let the ate? Is it time to switch to some new chores? child practice saying no using the steps out- Should there be fewer or different chores be- lined. Try many variations until you are confi- cause of added homework assignments or dent that your child knows how to say no. after-school activities? Should the curfew be adjusted? Children this age are very concerned about how others see them. You can help your child Talk with your child about friendship. Make develop a positive self-image by making sure the point that true friends do not ask each that the child looks good and feels healthy. In other to do things they know are wrong and addition to providing well-balanced meals, risk harm to themselves, their friends, or their keep your refrigerator and pantry stocked families. with appealing alternatives to junk food. Plan supervised parties or other activities for Continue to spend private time with your your child in your home which reflect a no- child to discuss what your child feels is im- alcohol/no-drug-use rule. For example, have portant in his or her life right now. Your your child invite friends to share a pizza and child's fears about emerging sexuality, ap- watch TV. pearing different from friends, and going on to high school are real problems and deserve your concern and attention. 18 Applying the Principles Grades 10-12 - the fact that drug use is not a victimless High school students are future-oriented and can crime; engage in abstract thinking. They have an in- creasingly realistic understanding of adults. - the effects and possible consequences of Young people therefore want adults to discuss operating equipment while using alcohol their concerns and the ways they solve problems and other drugs; and make decisions. You may have a tremen- - the impact that drug use has on society; dous new opportunity to help your children at and this age. At the same time, the teenagers con- tinue to be group-orientated, and belonging to - the extent of community intervention the group motivates much of their behavior and resources. actions. During these years, young people often develop a broader outlook and become more in- You may want to focus on the potential long- terested in the welfare of others. term effects of alcohol and other drugs during these years: drugs can ruin your teen's chances By the end of high school, your child should of getting into college, being accepted by the mili- understand: tary, or being hired for certain jobs. Your teen may also be impressed by the importance of serv- - both the immediate and long-term physi- ing as a good role model for a younger brother cal effects of specific drugs; or sister. - the possibly fatal effects of combining Although young people long for independence, drugs; it is particularly important to keep them in- volved in the family and family activities. They - the relationship of drug use to other dis- should join the rest of the family for dinner regu- eases and disabilities; larly, be part of family vacations, and remain - the effects of alcohol and other drugs on part of family routines. the fetus during pregnancy; 19 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Suggested Activities major holidays, which can be high-risk idle Continue to talk with your teenager about al- times for teens. cohol and other drug use. Chances are your teen has friends who use alcohol and other Make sure your teen has access to up-to-date in- drugs or knows people who do. Talk about formation on alcohol and other drugs and their how alcohol and other drug use threatens effects. Make an effort to be informed about any lives and may limit opportunities for the new drugs that are popular, and know their ef- future. fects. (For suggested reading, see the resources section at the end of this booklet.) Plan strategies to limit your teen's unsuper- vised hours at home, while you are at work. Cooperate with other parents to make sure Researchers have found that lunchtime and that the parties and social events your teen- 3:00-6:00 p.m. are periods teenagers are likely ager attends are alcohol- and drug-free. Some to experiment with alcohol and other drugs. families choose to draw up a contract holding adults responsible for parties given in their Encourage your teenager to work on behalf of homes; the contract specifies that all parties a drug prevention program by being trained will be supervised and that there is to be no as a volunteer to answer hot-line calls or as a use of alcohol or other drugs. (See "Safe peer counselor. Homes" in the resource section.) Talk with your teenager about joining a Help plan community-sponsored drug-free sports club, drama club, arts and crafts cen- activities such as alcohol- and drug-free ter, or dance studio or about volunteering to dances and other recreational activities such work for a church group or community orga- as "midnight basketball." nization. The busier your teenager is, the less likely he or she is to be bored and to seek an Talk with your teenager about the future. Dis- outlet in alcohol or other drugs. Volunteer cuss your expectations and your teenager's with your teenager, if you have time. ambitions. Collect college or vocational cata- logs for your teenager, and discuss different Plan alcohol- and drug-free activities with educational and career options. Plan a family other families during school vacations and outing to local colleges and universities. 20 hat to Do If Your Child Is Using Drugs Young people use drugs for many reasons that have to do with how they feel about themselves, how they get along with others, and how they live. No one factor determines who will use drugs and who will not, but here are some predictors: low grades or poor school performance; aggressive, rebellious behavior; excessive influence by peers; lack of parental support and guidance; and behavior problems at an early age. Being alert to the signs of alcohol and other drug use requires a keen eye. It is sometimes hard to know the difference between normal teenage behavior and behavior caused by drugs. Changes that are extreme or that last for more than a few days may signal drug use. Consider the following questions: Does your child seem withdrawn, de- pressed, tired, and careless about personal grooming? Has your child become hostile and uncooper- ative? Have your child's relationships with other family members deteriorated? Has your child dropped his old friends? Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Is your child no longer doing well in school- grades slipping, attendance irregular? Has your child lost interest in hobbies, sports, and other favorite activities? Have your child's eating or sleeping patterns changed? Positive answers to any of these questions can in- dicate alcohol or other drug use. However, these signs may also apply to a child who is not using drugs but who may be having other problems at school or in the family. If you are in doubt, get help. Have your family doctor or local clinic ex- Two types of homemade crack pipes. amine your child to rule out illness or other phys- ical problems. Cocaine paraphernalia includes mirrors, razor blades, and scales used by drug dealers. 22 What to Do If Your Child Is Using Drugs Watch for signs of drugs and drug paraphernalia as well. Possession of common items such as pipes, rolling papers, small medicine bottles, eye drops, or butane lighters may signal that your child is using drugs. ZIG ZAC ----------- Even when the signs are clearer, usually after the child has been using drugs for a time, parents sometimes do not want to admit that their child could have a problem. Anger, resentment, guilt, BUGLER and a sense of failure as parents are common PAPERS reactions. If your child is using drugs, it is important to avoid blaming yourself for the problem and to get whatever help is needed to stop it. The earlier a drug problem is detected and faced, the more Marijuana paraphernalia includes rolling papers, clips, and pipes. likely it is that your child can be helped. Powdered cocaine. 23 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention First, do not confront a child who is under the in- health professional experienced in diagnosing fluence of alcohol or other drugs, but wait until adolescents with alcohol- and drug-related the child is sober. Then discuss your suspicions problems. with your child calmly and objectively. Bring in other members of the family to help, if necessary. If your child has developed a pattern of drug use or has engaged in heavy use, you will prob- Second, impose whatever discipline your family ably need help to intervene. If you do not has decided on for violating the rules and stick to know about drug treatment programs in your it. Don't relent because the youngster promises area, call your doctor, local hospital, or county never to do it again. mental health society for a referral. Your school district should have a substance abuse Many young people lie about their alcohol and coordinator or a counselor who can refer you drug use. If you think your child is not being to treatment programs, too. Parents whose chil- truthful and the evidence is pretty strong, you dren have been through treatment programs may wish to have your child evaluated by a can also provide information. 24 Getting Involved The most promising drug prevention programs are those in which parents, students, schools, and communities join together to send a firm, clear message that the use of alcohol and other drugs will not be tolerated. School-Parent Cooperation The development of strong policies that spell out rules governing use, possession, and sale of alcohol and other drugs is a key part of any school-based prevention program. Learn what your school's poli- cies are and actively support them. If your school has no policy, work with teachers, administrators, and community members to develop one. Good school policies typically specify what constitutes an alcohol or other drug offense, spell out the conse- quences for violating the policy, describe proce- dures for handling violations, and build community support for the policy. Visit your child's school and learn how drug edu- cation is being taught. Are the faculty members trained to teach about alcohol and other drug GETTING INVOLVED use? Is drug education a regular part of the cur- riculum or limited to a special week? Is it taught through the health class, or do all teachers incor- porate drug education into their subject area? Do children in every grade receive drug education, or is it limited to selected grades? Is there a com- ponent for parents? If your school has an active program to prevent drug use, ask to see the materials that are being 25 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention used. Do they contain a clear message that alco- hol and other drug use is wrong and harmful? Is the information accurate and up-to-date? Does the school have referral sources for students who need special help? Let other parents know about the school's policies through meetings of the parent-teacher organiza- tion. At least one meeting each year should be de- voted to issues of alcohol and other drug use. Knowledgeable local physicians and pharmacists can be invited to discuss how drugs affect the growth and development of children, police offi- cers can outline the scope and severity of the drug Parent Support Groups problem in your community, and substance abuse Other parents can be valuable allies in your ef- counselors can discuss symptoms of alcohol and fort to keep your child drug free. Get to know other drug use and treatment options. the parents of your child's friends. Share expecta- tions about behavior and develop a set of mutu- Parent-Community Activities ally agreed upon rules about such things as curfews, unchaperoned parties, and places that Help your child to grow up alcohol and drug are off-limits. Helping youngsters stay out of free by supporting community efforts to give trouble is easier when rules of conduct are young people healthy alternatives. Alcohol- and clearly known and widely shared. drug-free proms and other school-based celebra- tions are growing in popularity around the coun- Build a network of other adults with whom you try. You can help to organize such events, solicit can talk. Join a parent organization in your com- contributions, and serve as a chaperon. munity, or talk informally with your friends about common concerns in rearing children. Local businesses are also an excellent source of Sharing experiences can provide insights that support for alternative activities such as athletic help you deal with your child's behavior. It also teams and part-time jobs. Shops and restaurants helps to know that other parents have faced sim- in one community in Texas, for example, now ilar situations. offer discounts to young people who test nega- tive for drugs in a voluntary urinalysis. 26 Making It Work Despite the grim stories that fill our newspapers and dominate the evening news, most young people do not use illicit drugs, they do not ap- prove of drug use by their friends, and they share their parents' concern about the dangers posed by drugs. Successful prevention efforts, whether in a family, school, or community setting, have many elements in common: a concern for the welfare and well- being of young people, dedicated adults who are willing to devote their time and energy, and an un- wavering commitment to being drug free. That commitment led a small group of parents in Bowling Green, Kentucky, to form Bowling Green Parents for Drug-Free Youth. The organi- zation has worked closely with the local schools and community to provide training and educa- tion for all members of the community, and it has raised more than $35,000 to help finance its efforts. Questionnaires administered to students in grades 7-12 for 6 consecutive years have MAKING IT WORK shown a steady decline in the use of alcohol and other drugs. Gail Amato, president of the Bowling Green Par- ents for Drug-Free Youth, speaks persuasively about why parents must be involved in helping to prevent alcohol and other drug use: People often ask me why I think parents are the an- swer, and I think it's because we have the most to lose. Schools can help, churches can help, law enforce- 27 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention ment can help, but no one can replace the family. projects joined forces to solve a neighborhood Being involved with drug and alcohol prevention lets problem-drugs. The residents were afraid for our children know that we care. It strengthens the the safety of their children and sick of the mur- family and helps us to be the kind of parents our chil- ders and other nightly violence related to drug dren need us to be. deals. A similar commitment leads parents of students Representing more than 1,400 families from the in Commodore Stockton Skills School in Stock- six projects, the group drafted an action plan to ton, California, to donate more than 400 volun- rid the neighborhood of drugs. The residents teer hours each month helping in the classrooms. asked the local police to conduct "sting" opera- Last year a family picnic held during Red Ribbon tions periodically. Members of the New Haven Week, a national drug awareness week, drew 500 news media have been invited to the project, participants for a day of games and activities fo- where residents speak openly about the prob- cused on prevention of drug use. lems they encounter. The residents have invited In addition to helping in the classroom, Stockton local community groups and the Greater New parents work to maintain discipline, to reinforce Haven Labor Council to join in the fight. In addi- students' respect for other people, and to foster tion, the mayor has become directly involved in personal responsibility at home. their struggle. As a result, behavioral problems in the school are One member, speaking on behalf of the resi- infrequent, attendance is high, and area police re- dents, stated its main objective: "We are banding port juvenile drug arrests from every school in together to stop this madness so that we can the city except Commodore Stockton. have a peaceful and livable neighborhood and community." Today, drug sales have decreased, Successful efforts to rid a neighborhood of drugs and members of the community feel safer and are often joint efforts. Two years ago in New more hopeful about the future. Haven, Connecticut, the residents of six housing 28 Specific Drugs and Their Effects Alcohol Alcohol consumption causes a number of changes in behavior. Even low doses significantly impair the judgment and coordination required to drive a car safely. Low to moderate doses of alcohol can in- crease the incidence of a variety of aggressive acts, including spouse and child abuse. Moderate to high doses of alcohol cause marked impairments in higher mental functions, severely altering a person's abil- ity to learn and remember information. Very high doses cause respiratory depression and death. Continued use of alcohol can lead to dependence. Sudden cessation of alcohol intake is likely to pro- duce withdrawal symptoms, including severe anxiety, tremors, hallucinations, and convulsions. Long- term effects of consuming large quantities of alcohol, especially when combined with poor nutrition, can lead to permanent damage to vital organs such as the brain and the liver. In addition, mothers who drink alcohol during pregnancy may give birth to infants with fetal alcohol syndrome. These infants may suffer from mental retardation and other irreversible physical abnormalities. In addition, research indicates that children of alcoholic parents are at greater risk than other children of becoming alcoholics. SPECIFIC DRUGS AND THEIR EFFECTS 29 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Tobacco The smoking of tobacco products is the chief avoidable cause of death in our society. Smokers are more likely than nonsmokers to contract heart disease-some 170,000 die each year from smoking-related cor- onary heart disease. Lung, larynx, esophageal, bladder, pancreatic, and kidney cancers also strike smokers at increased rates. Some 30 percent of cancer deaths (130,000 per year) are linked to smoking. Chronic, obstructive lung diseases such as emphysema and chronic bronchitis are 10 times more likely to occur among smokers than among nonsmokers. Smoking during pregnancy also poses serious risks. Spontaneous abortion, preterm birth, low birth weights, and fetal and infant deaths are all more likely to occur when the pregnant woman is a smoker. Cigarette smoke contains some 4,000 chemicals, several of which are known carcinogens. Perhaps the most dangerous substance in tobacco smoke is nicotine. Nicotine is the substance that reinforces and strengthens the desire to smoke. Because nicotine is highly addictive, addicts find it very difficult to stop smoking. Of 1,000 typical smokers, fewer than 20 percent succeed in stopping on the first try. 30 Specific Drugs and Their Effects Cannabis All forms of cannabis have negative physical and mental effects. Several regularly observed physical ef- fects of cannabis are a substantial increase in the heart rate, bloodshot eyes, a dry mouth and throat, and increased appetite. Use of cannabis may impair or reduce short-term memory and comprehension, alter sense of time, and reduce ability to perform tasks requiring concentration and coordination, such as driving a car. Motiva- tion and cognition may be altered, making the acquisition of new information difficult. Marijuana can also produce paranoia and psychosis. Because users often inhale the unfiltered smoke deeply and then hold it in their lungs as long as possi- ble, marijuana is damaging to the lungs and pulmonary system. Marijuana smoke contains more cancer-causing agents than tobacco smoke. Long-term users of cannabis may develop psychological dependence and require more of the drug to get the same effect. The drug can become the center of their lives. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Marijuana Pot, Reefer, Grass, Weed, Like dried parsley, with Smoked or eaten Dope, Ganja, Mary Jane, or stems and/or seeds; rolled Sinsemilla into cigarettes Tetrahydrocannabinol THC Soft gelatin capsules Taken orally Hashish Hash Brown or black cakes or Smoked or eaten balls Hashish Oil Hash Oil Concentrated syrupy liq- Smoked-mixed with uid varying in color from tobacco clear to black 31 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Inhalants The immediate negative effects of inhalants include nausea, sneezing, coughing, nosebleeds, fatigue, lack of coordination, and loss of appetite. Solvents and aerosol sprays also decrease the heart and respi- ratory rates and impair judgment. Amyl and butyl nitrite cause rapid pulse, headaches, and involun- tary passing of urine and feces. Long-term use may result in hepatitis or brain damage. Deeply inhaling the vapors, or using large amounts over a short time, may result in disorientation, vio- lent behavior, unconsciousness, or death. High concentrations of inhalants can cause suffocation by dis- placing the oxygen in the lungs or by depressing the central nervous system to the point that breathing stops. Long-term use can cause weight loss, fatigue, electrolyte imbalance, and muscle fatigue. Repeated sniff- ing of concentrated vapors over time can permanently damage the nervous system. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Nitrous Oxide Laughing gas or Whippets Small 8-gram metal Vapors inhaled cylinder sold with a balloon or pipe propellant for whipped cream in aerosol spray can Amyl Nitrite Poppers or Snappers Clear yellowish liquid in Vapors inhaled ampules Butyl Nitrite Rush, Bolt, Bullet, Locker In small bottles Vapors inhaled Room, and Climax Chlorohydrocarbons Aerosol sprays or cleaning Aerosol paint cans Vapors inhaled fluids Hydrocarbons Solvents Cans of aerosol propel- Vapors inhaled lants, gasoline, glue, paint thinner 32 Specific Drugs and Their Effects Cocaine Cocaine stimulates the central nervous system. Its immediate effects include dilated pupils and ele- vated blood pressure, heart rate, respiratory rate, and body temperature. Occasional use can cause a stuffy or runny nose, while chronic use can ulcerate the mucous membrane of the nose. Injecting co- caine with contaminated equipment can cause AIDS, hepatitis, and other diseases. Preparation of freebase, which involves the use of volatile solvents, can result in death or injury from fire or explosion. Crack or freebase rock is extremely addictive, and its effects are felt within 10 seconds. The physical ef- fects include dilated pupils, increased pulse rate, elevated blood pressure, insomnia, loss of appetite, tactile hallucinations, paranoia, and seizure. The use of cocaine can cause death by cardiac arrest or re- spiratory failure. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Cocaine Coke, Snow, Nose candy, White crystalline powder Inhaled, injected Flake, Blow, Big C, Lady, White, and Snowbirds Crack cocaine Crack, rock, freebase White to tan pellets or Smoked crystalline rocks that look like soap 33 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Other Stimulants Stimulants can cause increased heart and respiratory rates, elevated blood pressure, dilated pupils, and decreased appetite. In addition, users may experience sweating, headache, blurred vision, dizziness, sleeplessness, and anxiety. Extremely high doses can cause a rapid or irregular heartbeat, tremors, loss of coordination, and even physical collapse. An amphetamine injection creates a sudden increase in blood pressure that can result in stroke, very high fever, or heart failure. In addition to the physical effects, users report feeling restless, anxious, and moody. Higher doses in- tensify the effects. Persons who use large amounts of amphetamines over a long period of time can de- velop an amphetamine psychosis that includes hallucinations, delusions, and paranoia. These symptoms usually disappear when drug use ceases. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Amphetamines Speed, Uppers, Ups, Black Capsules, pills, tablets Taken orally, injected, in- beauties, Pep pills, Copilots, haled Bumblebees, Hearts, Benze- drine, Dexedrine, Footballs, and Biphetamine Methamphetamines Crank, Crystal meth, Crystal White powder, pills, Taken orally, injected, in- methedrine, and Speed rock that resembles a haled block of paraffin Additional Stimulants Ritalin, Cylert, Preludin, Pills or capsules Taken orally, injected Didrex, Pre-State, Voranil, Sandrex, and Plegine 34 Specific Drugs and Their Effects Depressants The effects of depressants are in many ways similar to the effects of alcohol. Small amounts can pro- duce calmness and relaxed muscles, but larger doses can cause slurred speech, staggering gait, and al- tered perception. Very large doses can cause respiratory depression, coma, and death. The combination of depressants and alcohol can multiply the effects of the drugs, increasing the risks. Regular use of depressants over time can result in physical and psychological addiction. People who suddenly stop taking large doses can experience withdrawal symptoms, including anxiety, insomnia, tremors, delirium, convulsions, and death. Babies born to mothers who abuse depressants may also be physically dependent on the drugs and show withdrawal symptoms shortly after they are born. Birth defects and behavioral problems also may result. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Barbiturates Downers, Barbs, Blue Red, yellow, blue, or red Taken orally Devils, Red Devils, and blue capsules Yellow Jacket, Yellows, Nembutal, Tuinals, Seconal, and Amytal Methaqualone Quaaludes, Ludes, Tablets Taken orally Sopors Tranquilizers Valium, Librium, Tablets or capsules Taken orally Miltown, Serax, Equanil, Miltown, and Tranxene 35 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Hallucinogens Phencyclidine (PCP) interrupts the functions of the neocortex, the section of the brain that controls the intellect and keeps instincts in check. Because the drug blocks pain receptors, violent PCP episodes may result in self-inflicted injuries. The effects of PCP vary, but users frequently report a sense of dis- tance and estrangement. Time and body movement are slowed down. Muscular coordination worsens and senses are dulled. Speech is blocked and incoherent. In later stages of chronic use, users often ex- hibit paranoid and violent behavior and experience hallucinations. Large doses may produce convul- sions and coma, as well as heart and lung failure. Lysergic acid (LSD), mescaline, and psilocybin cause illusions and hallucinations. The physical effects may include dilated pupils, elevated body temperature, increased heart rate and blood pressure, loss of appetite, sleeplessness, and tremors. The user may experience panic, confusion, suspicion, anxiety, and loss of control. Delayed effects, or flashbacks, can occur even when use has ceased. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Phencyclidine PCP, Hog, Angel Dust, Love- Liquid, white crystalline Taken orally, injected, boat, Lovely, Killer Weed powder, pills, capsules smoked (sprayed on joints or cigarettes) Lysergic acid LSD, Acid, Microdot, White Colored tablets, blotter Taken orally, licked off diethylamide lightning, Blue heaven, and paper, clear liquid, thin paper, gelatin and liquid Sugar cubes squares of gelatin can be put in the eyes Mescaline and Peyote Mesc, Buttons, and Cactus Hard brown discs, tablets, Discs-chewed, swal- capsules lowed, or smoked Tablets and capsules- taken orally Psilocybin Magic Mushrooms, Fresh or dried mushrooms Chewed and swallowed 'shrooms, 36 Specific Drugs and Their Effects Narcotics Narcotics initially produce a feeling of euphoria that often is followed by drowsiness, nausea, and vom- iting. Users also may experience constricted pupils, watery eyes, and itching. An overdose may pro- duce slow and shallow breathing, clammy skin, convulsions, coma, and possible death. Tolerance to narcotics develops rapidly and dependence is likely. The use of contaminated syringes may result in disease such as AIDS, endocarditis, and hepatitis. Addiction in pregnant women can lead to premature, stillborn, or addicted infants who experience severe withdrawal symptoms. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Heroin Smack, Horse, Mud, Brown White to dark-brown Injected, smoked, or sugar, junk, black tar, and powder or tarlike sub- inhaled Big H stance Codeine Empirin compound with co- Dark liquid varying in Taken orally, injected deine, Tylenol with codeine, thickness, capsules, Codeine in cough medicine tablets Morphine Pectoral syrup White crystals, hypoder- Taken orally, injected, or mic tablets, or injectable smoked solutions Opium Paregoric, Dover's powder, Dark brown chunks, Smoked, eaten, or injected Parepectolin powder Meperidine Pethidine, Demerol, White powder, solution, Taken orally, injected Mepergan tablets Other narcotics Percocet, Percodan, Tablets or capsules Taken orally, injected Tussionex, Fentanyl, Darvon, Talwin, and Lomotil 37 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Designer Drugs Illegal drugs are defined in the terms of their chemical formulas. To circumvent these legal restrictions, underground chemists modify the molecular structure of certain illegal drugs to produce analogs known as designer drugs. These drugs can be several hundred times stronger than the drugs they are designed to imitate. The narcotic analogs can cause symptoms such as those seen in Parkinson's disease: uncontrollable tremors, drooling, impaired speech, paralysis, and irreversible brain damage. Analogs of amphet- amines and methamphetamines cause nausea, blurred vision, chills or sweating, and faintness. Psycho- logical effects include anxiety, depression, and paranoia. As little as one dose can cause brain damage. The analogs of phencyclidine cause illusions, hallucinations, and impaired perception. Type What is it called? What does it look like? How is it used? Analog of Fentanyl Synthetic heroin, China white White powder Inhaled, injected (Narcotic) Analog of Meperi- MPTP (New heroin), MPPP, White powder Inhaled, injected dine (Narcotic) synthetic heroin Analog of Amphet- MDMA (Ecstasy, XTC, White powder, tablets, or Taken orally, injected, or amines or Metham- Adam, Essence), MDM, STP, capsules inhaled phetamines PMA, 2, 5-DMA, TMA, (Hallucinogens) DOM, DOB, EVE Analog of Phencycli- PCPy, PCE White powder Taken orally, injected, or dine (PCP) smoked 38 Specific Drugs and Their Effects Anabolic Steroids Anabolic steroids are a group of powerful compounds closely related to the male sex hormone testoster- one. Developed in the 1930's, steroids are seldom prescribed by physicians today. Current legitimate medical uses are limited to certain kinds of anemia, severe burns, and some types of breast cancer. Taken in combination with a program of muscle-building exercise and diet, steroids may contribute to increases in body weight and muscular strength. Steroid users subject themselves to more than 70 side effects ranging in severity from liver cancer to acne and including psychological as well as physical reac- tions. The liver and cardiovascular and reproductive systems are most seriously affected by steroid use. In males, use can cause withered testicles, sterility, and impotence. In females, irreversible mascu- line traits can develop along with breast reduction and sterility. Psychological effects in both sexes in- clude very aggressive behavior known as "roid rage" and depression. While some side effects appear quickly, others, such as heart attacks and strokes, may not show up for years. Signs of steroid use include quick weight and muscle gains (when used in a weight training program); aggressiveness and combativeness; jaundice; purple or red spots on the body; swelling of feet and lower legs; trembling; unexplained darkening of the skin; and persistent unpleasant breath odor. 39 Resources The Department of Education does not endorse any private or commercial products or services, or prod- ucts or services not affiliated with the Federal Govern- ment. The sources of information listed on this and the following pages are intended only as a partial list- ing of the resources that are available to readers of this booklet. Readers are encouraged to research and in- form themselves of the products or services, relating to drug and alcohol abuse, that are available to them. Where to Get Information and Help Many hospitals, community colleges, and other organizations offer classes for parents that are de- signed to improve communication and under- standing between parents and children. Consult your local library, school, or community service organization for more information. Action. Through its Drug Alliance, the Federal Domestic Volunteer Agency promotes community- based, volunteer drug use prevention projects for RESOURCES at-risk youth and the elderly. (See your tele- phone Blue Pages.) Alcoholics Anonymous. This organization is a fel- lowship of men and women who share their ex- periences to solve a common problem (alcoholism) and to help other alcoholics achieve sobriety. The organization is worldwide. (See your telephone White Pages.) 41 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters. Al-Anon was Hazelden Foundation. This foundation distributes established as a resource for family members and educational materials and self-help literature for friends of alcoholics. It is a free, nonprofessional, participants in 12-step recovery programs and worldwide organization with more than 30,000 for the professionals who work in the field. groups. (See your telephone White Pages.) Pleasant Valley Road, Box 176, Center City, MN 55012-0176. Telephone (800) 328-9000. American Council for Drug Education. This organi- zation provides information on drug use, devel- Institute on Black Chemical Abuse. This institute ops media campaigns, reviews scientific provides training and technical assistance to pro- findings, publishes books and a newsletter, and grams that want to serve African-American/ offers films and curriculum materials for pre- black clients and others of color more effectively. teens. 204 Monroe Street, Rockville, MD 20850. 2614 Nicollet Avenue, Minneapolis, MN 55408. Telephone (301) 294-0600. Telephone (612) 871-7878. Chemical People Project. The project supplies infor- "Just Say No" Clubs. These clubs provide support mation in the form of tapes, literature, and semi- and positive peer reinforcement to youngsters nars. The Public Television Outreach Alliance, through workshops, seminars, newsletters, and a c/o WQED-TV, 4802 Fifth Avenue, Pittsburgh, variety of activities. 1777 North California Boule- PA 15213. Telephone (412) 391-0900. vard, Suite 200, Walnut Creek, CA 94596. Tele- phone 1-800-258-2766/(415) 939-6666. Families Anonymous, Inc. This worldwide organi- zation offers a 12-step, self-help program for fam- Nar-Anon Family Group Headquarters. This organi- ilies and friends of people with behavioral zation operates in a manner similar to Al-Anon problems usually associated with drug abuse. and supports people who have friends or family The organization is similar in structure to Alco- members with drug problems. World Service Of- holics Anonymous. P.O. Box 528, Van Nuys, CA fice, P.O. Box 2562, Palos Verdes Peninsula, CA 91408. Telephone (818) 989-7841. 90274. Telephone (213) 547-5800. Families in Action National Drug Information Cen- Narcotics Anonymous. Similar to Alcoholics Anon- ter. This organization publishes Drug Abuse Up- ymous, this program is a fellowship of men and date, a quarterly journal of news and information women who meet to help one another with their for persons interested in drug prevention. $25 for drug dependency problems. World Service Of- four issues. 2296 Henderson Mill Road, Suite 204, fice, P.O. Box 9999, Van Nuys, CA 91409. Tele- Atlanta, GA 30345. Telephone (404) 934-6364. phone (818) 780-3951. 42 Resources National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Infor- cate junior and senior high school students about mation (NCADI). NCADI is a resource for alcohol drug abuse. Communications Center, 1423 North and other drug information. It carries a wide Jefferson, Springfield, MO 65802. Telephone variety of publications dealing with alcohol and (417) 836-3709. other drug abuse. Box 2345, Rockville, MD 20852. Telephone (301) 468-2600. National PTA Drug and Alcohol Abuse Prevention Project. Offers kits, brochures, posters, and other National Council on Alcoholism, Inc. This national publications on alcohol and other drugs for par- voluntary health agency provides information ents, teachers, and PTA organizations. 700 North about alcoholism and alcohol problems through Rush Street, Chicago, IL 60611. Telephone more than 300 local affiliates. 12 West 21st Street, (312) 577-4500. New York, NY 10010. Telephone (212) 206-6770. Safe Homes. This national organization encour- National Crime Prevention Council. This organiza- ages parents to sign a contract stipulating that tion works to prevent crime and drug use in when parties are held in one another's homes many ways, including developing materials they will adhere to a strict no-alcohol/no-drug- (audio visual, reproducible brochures, and other use rule. P.O. Box 702, Livingston, NJ 07039. publications) for parents and children. 1700 K Street, N.W., Washington, D.C. 20006. Telephone Toughlove. This national self-help group for par- (202) 466-NCPC. ents, children, and communities emphasizes co- operation, personal initiative, and action. It National Federation of Parents for Drug-Free Youth, publishes a newsletter, brochures, and books, Inc. This organization sponsors the National Red and it holds workshops. P.O. Box 1069, Doyles- Ribbon Campaign to reduce the demand for town, PA 18901. Telephone 1-800-333-1069/(215) drugs and the Responsible Educated Adolescents 348-7090. Can Help (REACH) program designed to edu- 43 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Toll-Free Information 1-800-241-7946-PRIDE DRUG INFORMATION HOTLINE 1-800-COCAINE-A COCAINE HELPLINE A national resource and information center, A round-the-clock information and referral serv- Parents' Resource Institute for Drug Education ice. Recovering cocaine-addict counselors answer (PRIDE) refers concerned parents to parent the phones, offer guidance, and refer drug users groups in their state or local area; gives informa- and parents to local public and private treatment tion on how parents can form a group in their centers and family learning centers. community; provides telephone consultation and 1-800-NCA-CALL-NATIONAL COUNCIL ON referrals to emergency health centers; and main- ALCOHOLISM INFORMATION LINE tains a series of drug information tapes that cal- lers can listen to, free of charge, by calling after The National Council on Alcoholism, Inc., is a 5:00 p.m. national nonprofit organization that combats alcoholism, other drug addictions, and related 1-800-622-HELP NIDA HOTLINE problems. The council also provides referral serv- NIDA Hotline is a confidential information and ices to families and individuals seeking help referral line that directs callers to cocaine abuse with alcoholism or other drug problems. treatment centers in the local community. Free materials on drug abuse are also distributed in re- sponse to inquiries. 44 Resources General Reading List for Parents and Drug Information, P.O. Box 2345, Rockville, MD 20852. Free. Drug-Free Kids: A Parents' Guide, 1986. Scott New- man Center, 6255 Sunset Blvd., Suite 1906, Los The Fact Is Hispanic Parents Can Help Their Chil- Angeles, CA 90028. Available in English and in dren Avoid Alcohol and Other Drug Problems, 1989. Spanish. $6.50 plus tax for the English-language National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug In- version. formation, P.O. Box 2345, Rockville, MD 20852. Free. Kids and Drugs: A Handbook for Parents and Profes- sionals, by Joyce Tobias, 1987. PANDAA Press, The Fact Is You Can Prevent Alcohol and Other 4111 Watkins Trail, Annandale, VA 22003. $6.90. Drug Problems Among Elementary School Children, Peer Pressure Reversal, by Sharon Scott, 1985, re- 1988. National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and printed 1988. Human Resource Development Drug Information, P.O. Box 2345, Rockville, MD 20852. Free. Press, 22 Amherst Road, Amherst, MA 01002. $9.95. The Fact Is You Can Help Prevent Alcohol and Pot Safari, by Peggy Mann, 1982, reprinted 1987. Other Drug Use Among Secondary School Students, Woodmere Press, Cathedral Finance Station, 1989. National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and P.O. Box 20190, New York, NY 10125. $6.95. Drug Information, P.O. Box 2345, Rockville, MD 20252. Free. Preparing for the Drug-Free Years: A Family Activity Book, by J. David Hawkins, et al., 1988. Develop- Young Children and Drugs: What Parents Can Do, mental Research and Programs, Box 85746, Seat- 1987. The Wisconsin Clearinghouse, 1954 E. tle, WA 98145. $10.95. Washington Avenue, Madison, WI 53704. $6.00 per 100 brochures. Team Up for Drug Prevention with America's Young Athletes, Drug Enforcement Administration, De- What Works: Schools Without Drugs, U.S. Depart- ment of Education, 1986, revised in 1989. Na- mand Reduction Section, 1405 I Street, N.W., Washington, DC 20537. Free. tional Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information, Box 2345, Rockville, MD 20852. Free. Ten Steps To Help Your Child Say "No": A Parent's Guide, 1986. National Clearinghouse for Alcohol 45 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention General Reading List for Kids and Alcohol: Get High On Life, by Jamie Elementary School Children Rattray et al., 1984. Health Communications, Inc. 1721 Blount Road, Suite 1, Pompano Beach, FL A Little More About Alcohol, 1984. Alcohol Re- 33069. $5.95. A workbook designed to help chil- search Information Service, 1120 East Oakland dren (ages 11-14) make important decisions in Avenue, Lansing, MI 48906. $0.75. A cartoon their lives and feel good about themselves. character explains facts about alcohol and its ef- fects on the body. Kootch Talks About Alcoholism, by Mary Kay Schwandt, 1984. Serenity Work, 1455 North Uni- Alcohol: What It Is, What It Does, by Judith S. versity Drive, Fargo, ND 58102. $3.00. A 40-page Seixas, 1977. Greenwillow Books, 105 Madison coloring book in which Kootch the worm helps Avenue, New York, NY 10016. $5.95. An easy-to- young children understand alcoholism and read illustrated primer on the use and abuse of alcoholics. alcohol. The Sad Story of Mary Wanna or How Marijuana An Elephant in the Living Room: The Children's Harms You, by Peggy Mann, illustrated by Book, by Marion H. Hyppo and Jill M. Hastings, Naomi Lind, 1988. Woodmere Press, P.O. Box 1984. CompCare Publications, Box 27777, Minne- 20190, Cathedral Finance Station, New York, NY apolis, MN 55427. $6.00. An illustrated work- 10025. $2.95. A 40-page activity book for children book designed to help children from alcoholic in grades 1-4 that contains pictures of the dam- homes understand that alcoholism is a disease age that marijuana does to the body. and that they are not alone in coping with its effects. Whiskers Says No to Drugs, 1987. Weekly Reader Skills Books, Field Publications, 245 Long Hill Buzzy's Rebound, by William Cosby and Jim Road, Middletown, CT 06457. $1.50. This book Willoughby, 1986. National Clearinghouse for contains stories and follow-up activities for stu- Alcohol and Drug Information, P.O. Box 2345, dents in grades 2 and 3 to provide information Rockville, MD 20852. Free. An 18-page "Fat and form attitudes before they face peer pressure Albert" comic book that describes the pressure to experiment. on a new kid in town to drink. 46 Resources General Reading List for Secondary Different Like Me: A Book for Teens Who Worry School Children About Their Parents' Use of Alcohol/Drugs, 1987. Johnson Institute, 7151 Metro Boulevard, Minne- About Teens and Drugs, 1987. Channing L. Bete apolis, MN 55435. $6.95. This 110-page book pro- Co., South Deerfield, MA 01373. Free. A 15-page vides support and information for teens who are booklet providing an overview of the dangers of concerned, confused, scared, and angry because drug use and healthy alternative activities tar- their parents abuse alcohol and other drugs. geted at senior high school students. Don't Lose a Friend to Drugs, 1986. National Crime Chew or Snuff Is Real Bad Stuff. National Cancer Prevention Council, 1700 K Street, N.W., 2d Institute, U.S. Department of Health and Human Floor, Washington, DC 20006. Free. This bro- Services Building 31, Room 10A24, Bethesda, chure offers practical advice to teenagers on how MD 20892. Free. This 8-page pamphlet describes to say "no" to drugs, how to help a friend who the hazards of using smokeless tobacco. uses drugs, and how to initiate community ef- Christy's Chance, 1987. Network Publications, forts to prevent drug use. P.O. Box 1830, Santa Cruz, CA 95061-1830. $3.95. A story geared to younger teens that al- lows the reader to make a nonuse decision about marijuana. 47 Growing Up Drug Free: A Parent's Guide to Prevention Videos Say NO! to Drugs: A Parent's Guide to Teaching A Gift for Life: Helping Your Children Stay Alcohol Your Kids How To Grow Up Without Drugs and and Drug Free, 1989. American Council on Drug Alcohol, 1986. PRIDE, The Hurt Building, 50 Hurt Plaza, Suite 210, Atlanta, GA 30303. Education, 204 Monroe Street, Suite 110, Rock- Order No. F008S, $25.95. ville, MD 20850. $29.95. Drug-Free Kids: A Parent's Guide, 1986. Scott Newman Center, 6255 Sunset Blvd., Suite 1906, Los Angeles, CA 90028. $32.50 48 References What Parents Can Do California Department of Justice. Drugs and Youth: An Information Guide for Parents and Educa- tors. 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Bubel, Ph.D., Developmental and Sue Ruche, Families in Action Psychological Services Associates Mel Segal, Office for Substance Abuse Preven- Lee Dogoloff, American Council on Drug tion, Department of Health and Human Services Education Nancy Simpson, Office for Substance Abuse Charles Flatter, Ph.D., University of Maryland Prevention, Department of Health and Human Services J. David Hawkins, Ph.D., University of Washington Joyce Tobias, PANDAA Elizabeth Karnes, National Commission on Drug- John Van Schoonhoven, Greenbelt Center Free Schools Elementary School Michael Klitzner, Ph.D., Pacific Institute for Re- Manya Unger, National Parent-Teacher search and Evaluation Association *** Elizabeth S. McConnell, U.S. Attorney's Office, Tampa, FL The following employees of the U.S. Department of Anne Meyer, National Federation of Parents for Education helped prepare this volume: Drug-Free Youth Mahlon Anderson Dick W. Hays Randolph A. 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